Lwazi Lwaz

@SirFrunk_NIB_

Lwazi Mthombeni

You got to love Lwazi's dress sense... I swear its so simple but it gets you real good... If I was a guy, I'd wanna be dressed up like Lwazi all the time, pity he doesn't wanna dress me up like a young dudette

Friend Zone

Yesterday I had the pleasure of reading theeee most amazing blog post about being stuck in the "FRIENDZONE". First and foremost, what caught my attention was the name of the actual blog... "FriendzoneMondays". The fight against friendzoning!!!

This gem defines friendzoning as follows: "Well the Friendzone occurs when a male tries to initiate a romantic/intimate relationship with a female and involuntarily gets thrown into a realm where an unrequited platonic friendship develops from the female’s side. It is obviously an undesirable situation for the lovelorn male. Once the male has been properly dumped in the Friendzone, they become a complete non-sexual entity. That is, the male is no longer seen a suitable partner but rather as:
I. One of the girls
II. Her ‘brother’
III. That loser that is at her beck and call (i.e. Provides transport to her male “cousins” house, money for emergency weave changes etc.)
IV. An inanimate object like a lamp, stapler, TV etc (take your pick) And just judging from the definition itself, I shrug because I know for a fact that I'm guilty of such and action. I mean, if a guy is will to take "friendship" because "dating" didn't work out or wasn't an option shouldn't be my problem. He also has the option to leave but somehow they never do. So, as a fellow friendzoner and a previous victim of being friendzoned, I stand in support of this FriendZoneMondays campaign to try and stop this pandemic called the friendzone.

*Inspired by http://friendzonemondays.tumblr.com/

Vock Ya Sole

Tshepo Mohoto aka VOCK YA SOLE

If there were enough words in the world of vocabulary to describe this guys level of crazy, I'd have them all summed up. Quite frankly, I've never met such a type of a perplexed individual, with thoughts and reactions so complex, I struggle to comprehend. But for some odd reason, He complements my kind of crazy. This Friendship of ours is on STEROIDS! Its been the best 3months + many weeks of 2011 because of this OWL of a creature! From morning chats to late night voice noting, Vock remains the crazy I'd like to keep in contact with for a lifetime and a bit. He reminds me of Samza aka Lele, another art piece of madness that I wont discuss cause I'll never stop! I'd need a miracle to put those words into formation nje so NO! What matters is that they share a link only I can see...

He has some extreme brain-work talent that gets him into the craziest state of mind that forces reactions out of me. I will say that he thinks that he is shy, which is probably true, just that in my presence, everyone does seem like a shy being cause I talk too much. He does challenge me to be better than I am though, He even got me on that bible reading steez! He has these pics that he takes that he likes to embody a CHRIST-LIKE human person that exists in him. But nothing beats this "God is Love" one.



Apart from all the crazy, music (Thomas Karooz ft Vock Ya Sole Life[Karabo] and Third World ft Vock Ya Sole Jammin' "They Produce... He Mixes... I Perform...")) and talent, Vock is very good looking! No No I mean, Vock is a look and a half, he has his own features that the ladies cant resist. I laugh everytime he thinks he looks older than he actually is cause really, with growth comes a matured charm so, yeah, I recommend him to all the ladies out there who want some Mohoto loving. But more than anything else, I'm very glad Vock isn't just a "PRETTY FACE", or just a simple, HANDSOME Guy, his mind is the true definition of "Gods Likeness"! I wont lie, he is a very challenging being. He reminds me of my daily Christian struggles: like every Christian walk, he can have you questioning why you are doing what you do while drawing you closer to the beauty of being a child of the Most High God. I mean, from someone who comes alive at night? made by a God that never sleeps, what more can I say? I can name countless occasions where I've wanted to co-habitat with his brain in that head of his, NEVER MIND THE BODY MASS okay?? like he would say, "Don't Saba". This guy is a lifetimes worth of brain power and I'd spend a lifetime trying to decipher his brain functionality. He really is an insane person deranged person, lunatic, maniac, nut, nut case, He is Mr Mohoto (VOOOOOOOOOOOOOCK *bbm crying face* )



My Mohoto aka "Mas'khozi" is very special to me, not because he keeps me laughing from half past tot O'clock, but because he opened up to a total stranger as if he had known me for years and it was that easy to come up with rejected solutions to troubles we both faced. I think he transforms me into a thinker nje, its really abnormal to spread transformer vibes like he does. Vocks a crazy person, I say it all the time, he probably believes it too, but wont ever admit to it. But from one crazy to the next, I truly admire that boy... Never mind the Zuko part I see in Vock... hmmmm Zuko (one of my favourite crazies) is a whole new post, So lets stick to the mental case patient called Vock!

Vock inspires me, indirectly so, but yes he does. I admire people who have found their voice and talent. I think its very important as individuals to find our inner voice that truly defines us and also separates us from other mediocre beings. I admire people who are willing to let go of things that delay them from being the best "them" that they could be. I admire people that can still realise a dream when the rest of the world sees the "end of them". I would never cross the lines that he has crossed or walk in paths that he has tread, but I still maintain, Good only comes to those who believe in good, not necessarily those who wait...



Its been a pleasure sharing laughs and heart aches with this guy, I think there is more to come, but I shall take it easy until I have fully discovered the kind of Dianne I so desire to be. Gods mercies, love and innate likeness travels with Vock, so why wouldn't I? In all forms of profoundness, his being is profound enough, no words could capture the true dynamics of being friends with this guys, but the friendship itself. So with that much said and done, I'll walk besides and behind this TALL boy, teaching myself how to live the alternative life, OR NOT! but teaching myself how to expand my realities continually!


#TeamVockYaSole ALL THE WAY!!!

Friendship

There is nothing better in life than the feeling of mutual understanding and love that you get even though you are in no position to receive. Friendship is the deepest love shared without knowing.

I value my friends very much, not because they are there when days are dark, but because being myself is extra special when I am with them. Take Noma for instance, I can tell her anything, but no matter how judged I feel, it doesn't stop me from telling her again. Its called being able to be without care.

Thuli on the other hand is a breed of her own. She is something else. She is the emotional one of the bunch. She is able to feel and you see her feelings through her eyes. Its being able to cry for a friend who is being strong.

Nomfundo, blood sister but a true friend nonetheless. I hated her for bulk of my life, she was my worst enemy. I cant stand her but I love her more than anyone. She is always there for me and shares experiences with me. We have been through a lot to get to where we are right now. Its more of a love-hate relationship. She is a true best friend that I didn't have to impress to have. She is a hard nut to crack, and always stands up for me when I am wrong. I don't even know how many bullets she has taken for me. Its called being able to stand with no legs and feet.

Then we get to Jack, I only met Jack in December of 2008 but I feel like he has been a part of my life since I was born. I have never met the guy version of myself, but the soft part of me. Well... He happens to be the soft male version of me. I love this guy, he is simply the best. I have no words to describe him but its called being able to live in someone Else's soul.

King has been my punching bag for the life of me. He is my slipper. I am able to walk all over him but i still depend on him for comfort. I value you his presence more than I value my feet sometimes. I have undying love for him. He loves me in silence... I have found the guy who will love me as I am. I thank God for him in my life. Its called finding the right slipper, my perfect fit...

I love my friends. They make me happy in my system. I come up with new description of my feelings when dealing with such people in my life. Friendships are really important, especially when they are built on a firm foundation. God does truly give you your hearts desires...

Moral of this thought is simple, value, love and experience your friend so that you know how it feels to have unlimited love.